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At Berry College, we know how important your role is in your student’s life—even as they grow into greater independence. The transition to college brings exciting growth and new challenges, not just for students, but for families too. Whether your student is thriving, struggling, or somewhere in between, we’re here to support you in supporting them.

How to Support Your College Student
College is a time of major developmental milestones: identity formation, increased responsibility, and emotional growth. Here are some ways you can help your student navigate this transition:

  1. Practice Active Listening
    Let your student talk without immediately trying to fix the problem. Ask open-ended questions like, “What’s been the hardest part?” or “What do you need from me right now?"
  2. Normalize the Ups and Downs
    Remind them that stress, homesickness, and self-doubt are common - and usually temporary - parts of college life.
  3. Encourage Self-Advocacy
    Instead of solving issues for them, coach them through steps they can take (e.g., reaching out to a professor, making a counseling appointment).
  4. Be Mindful of Expectations
    Support exploration in academic interests, relationships, and career paths—even if their choices differ from your own hopes.
  5. Know the Boundaries of Confidentiality
    Understand that student mental health services are confidential, but we welcome parent inquiries about general concerns or support.

Self-Care for Parents
Caring for your student also means caring for yourself. The college transition can be emotionally complex: pride, worry, grief, and hope can all exist at once.
Ways to take care of yourself during this transition: Stay connected to your own support systems—friends, family, spiritual community, or therapist. Acknowledge your own emotional experience—letting go is hard and normal. Maintain your routines and hobbies. Give yourself permission to grow alongside your student.
If you're struggling: Consider speaking to a therapist or coach who specializes in life transitions or parenting young adults. Taking care of your emotional health models resilience for your student.

Parent Resources
We’ve curated a list of tools and articles to help you support your student from a place of calm, clarity, and compassion:
Articles & Guides
Helping Your College Student Through Emotional Struggles – NAMI
Letting Go: Tips for Parents of New College Students – Psychology Today
The College Parent Central Blog
Books
Letting Go: A Parents’ Guide to Understanding the College Years – Karen Levin Coburn & Madge Treeger
The Stressed Years of Their Lives – B. Hibbs & A. Rostain
How to Raise an Adult – Julie Lythcott-Haims
Let Them- Mel Robinson
Mental Health Resources
Berry College Counseling Center: Learn more about our services
Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741
The Jed Foundation – Parent Support

When to Reach Out for Help
Encourage your student to reach out to our Counseling Center if you notice:
Persistent sadness, isolation, or hopelessness
Sudden changes in behavior, sleep, or academic performance
Expressions of being overwhelmed, anxious, or having difficulty coping
Talk of self-harm or suicide
** You can also make an online report for your student. We are dedicated to the well-being and success of our students — and work toward creating a campus culture that supports and cares for all community members. The Care Team, within the Dean of Students Office, is an interdisciplinary faculty/staff team focused on providing proactive and collaborative approaches to students facing a challenge, whether personal or academic. Regardless of the challenge, we are ready to listen and help create action plans and to help you connect/coordinate on and off-campus resources.

Student Alert Referral Form
You are welcome to call the Counseling Center with concerns. While we cannot share personal information about your student without their written consent, we can listen and offer guidance.

Contact Us
Berry College Counseling Center
Ladd Center
Phone: 706-236-2259
Email: wgates@berry.edu
Hours: Monday - Friday 8am - 5pm

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